YOUR GUIDE TO AUTHENTIC DATING

Practical tips to go from

confused to confident

in your love life

Get one step closer to your dream woman

YOUR GUIDE TO AUTHENTIC DATING

Practical tips to go from

confused to confident

in your love life

Get one step closer to your dream woman

Previous Issues of The Newsletters

5 Signs You Have a Subconscious Dating Block

5 Signs You Have a Subconscious Dating Block

August 06, 20244 min read

When you’re a successful guy, you have options in dating. 

Unfortunately, those options haven’t worked out for you yet. 

They may last a couple of weeks or even years, but you haven’t found that woman who you know is your ride-or-die.

And you’re stumped. 

You can’t figure out why the woman you want is never into you…

Or why you’re suddenly uninterested in the woman you initially had chemistry with…

Or how you could ignore so many red flags simply because she was so much of what you wanted.

You’re a smart guy, you feel like you have self-awareness, but the relationship piece of your life isn’t clicking. 

Your love life feels confusing because your dating blocks are hidden below the surface in your subconscious. 

This is why your success and people skills can make your love life look okay on the surface but feel disheartening and even disconnected inside. 

As a high performer, you’re susceptible to subconscious dating blocks because you’re highly intelligent and driven (I know, this seems counterintuitive). 

Lowering your standards, treating dating like a numbers game, or trying to get fitter are not the answers…

What I’m about to share with you is.

The Hidden Dating Barrier Blocking You from Your Dream Woman

When you have subconscious dating blocks, no amount of strategic dating advice or basic mindset work is going to change your love life.

You can try to take all the ice baths you like, it won’t change a thing.

This is why your friends and family keep asking why you’re still single and you honestly can’t think of a valid reason (been there!).

It’s also why you keep thinking that taking a break from dating will change things up.

And sometimes it does.

You meet a woman who seems different, but then the same patterns happen (the relationship ends).

You are experiencing these disheartening cycles because you’re wired to.

Your subconscious has created certain protective mechanisms to try and keep you from experiencing pain in dating.

It believes that these behaviors will keep you from getting your heart broken (again), feeling rejected, or getting a divorce and losing half of everything.

But all they’re really doing is keeping you from attracting and keeping your dream woman.

So how do you know if you have a subconscious dating block?

These are 5 signs you do.

5 Signs You Have a Subconscious Dating Block

1. You overthink the dating process and search for affirmation or become quieter and shut down with a woman you’re into

In other words, you never feel like yourself with a woman you’re into. At some point it starts to feel like a performance because you subconsciously believe you have to achieve love.

2. You come on really strong with a woman you’re into, but then lose interest quickly as soon as she leans in

This switch can feel immediate. You try to ignore the doubts bubbling up (about her body, work schedule, something small she said that set off alarms), but they overpower all of the amazing things about her and you just can’t get that “feeling” back.

3. You attract women who tend to pick fights, don’t trust you, and act needy

These women can feel warm and amazing in the beginning. They can make dating them seem easy. Then, all of a sudden, the dynamic changes and you don’t know why.

4. When women leave, they can’t give you a clear explanation of why they don’t feel like you’re a match

You’re starting to wonder if women even know what they want. You don’t know how can you be her dream man one second and then not the next. You’re done blaming yourself, but you’d like the cycle to stop.

5. You use work, your age, or lifestyle as an excuse to not get close to someone

You feel like you can predict the future of the relationship before even giving it a chance. You’ve convinced yourself you’re right. Problem is, you don’t actually know this.

You are an amazing man. You’re driven, introspective, generous, and you take care of yourself.

Your perfect match is out there waiting for you.

When we remove your dating block, you feel free in love and effortlessly connect with her.

Let’s make attracting her inevitable. With my eyes on your dating life, I will show you:

✨ Specifically what subconscious dating blocks you have (the reason you can’t create a lasting connection)

✨ The exact shifts to make in your mindset and dating strategies to attract your ideal partner (who you effortlessly connect with)

✨ How to enjoy falling in love without the stress (so you can stay focused on your other goals)

Apply to work with Emily Freeman Coaching

This is the summer you meet your dream woman ❤️

Emily Freeman Coaching Signature

It’s my mission to help men realize their true potential in dating & relationships. I know what it’s like to desire partnership so badly but question if you’ll ever get it. It doesn’t have to be this hard. I’m so grateful I’m the one who gets to show you how fun and fulfilling love can be.

Emily Freeman

It’s my mission to help men realize their true potential in dating & relationships. I know what it’s like to desire partnership so badly but question if you’ll ever get it. It doesn’t have to be this hard. I’m so grateful I’m the one who gets to show you how fun and fulfilling love can be.

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Previous Issues of The Newsletters

5 Signs You Have a Subconscious Dating Block

5 Signs You Have a Subconscious Dating Block

August 06, 20244 min read

When you’re a successful guy, you have options in dating. 

Unfortunately, those options haven’t worked out for you yet. 

They may last a couple of weeks or even years, but you haven’t found that woman who you know is your ride-or-die.

And you’re stumped. 

You can’t figure out why the woman you want is never into you…

Or why you’re suddenly uninterested in the woman you initially had chemistry with…

Or how you could ignore so many red flags simply because she was so much of what you wanted.

You’re a smart guy, you feel like you have self-awareness, but the relationship piece of your life isn’t clicking. 

Your love life feels confusing because your dating blocks are hidden below the surface in your subconscious. 

This is why your success and people skills can make your love life look okay on the surface but feel disheartening and even disconnected inside. 

As a high performer, you’re susceptible to subconscious dating blocks because you’re highly intelligent and driven (I know, this seems counterintuitive). 

Lowering your standards, treating dating like a numbers game, or trying to get fitter are not the answers…

What I’m about to share with you is.

The Hidden Dating Barrier Blocking You from Your Dream Woman

When you have subconscious dating blocks, no amount of strategic dating advice or basic mindset work is going to change your love life.

You can try to take all the ice baths you like, it won’t change a thing.

This is why your friends and family keep asking why you’re still single and you honestly can’t think of a valid reason (been there!).

It’s also why you keep thinking that taking a break from dating will change things up.

And sometimes it does.

You meet a woman who seems different, but then the same patterns happen (the relationship ends).

You are experiencing these disheartening cycles because you’re wired to.

Your subconscious has created certain protective mechanisms to try and keep you from experiencing pain in dating.

It believes that these behaviors will keep you from getting your heart broken (again), feeling rejected, or getting a divorce and losing half of everything.

But all they’re really doing is keeping you from attracting and keeping your dream woman.

So how do you know if you have a subconscious dating block?

These are 5 signs you do.

5 Signs You Have a Subconscious Dating Block

1. You overthink the dating process and search for affirmation or become quieter and shut down with a woman you’re into

In other words, you never feel like yourself with a woman you’re into. At some point it starts to feel like a performance because you subconsciously believe you have to achieve love.

2. You come on really strong with a woman you’re into, but then lose interest quickly as soon as she leans in

This switch can feel immediate. You try to ignore the doubts bubbling up (about her body, work schedule, something small she said that set off alarms), but they overpower all of the amazing things about her and you just can’t get that “feeling” back.

3. You attract women who tend to pick fights, don’t trust you, and act needy

These women can feel warm and amazing in the beginning. They can make dating them seem easy. Then, all of a sudden, the dynamic changes and you don’t know why.

4. When women leave, they can’t give you a clear explanation of why they don’t feel like you’re a match

You’re starting to wonder if women even know what they want. You don’t know how can you be her dream man one second and then not the next. You’re done blaming yourself, but you’d like the cycle to stop.

5. You use work, your age, or lifestyle as an excuse to not get close to someone

You feel like you can predict the future of the relationship before even giving it a chance. You’ve convinced yourself you’re right. Problem is, you don’t actually know this.

You are an amazing man. You’re driven, introspective, generous, and you take care of yourself.

Your perfect match is out there waiting for you.

When we remove your dating block, you feel free in love and effortlessly connect with her.

Let’s make attracting her inevitable. With my eyes on your dating life, I will show you:

✨ Specifically what subconscious dating blocks you have (the reason you can’t create a lasting connection)

✨ The exact shifts to make in your mindset and dating strategies to attract your ideal partner (who you effortlessly connect with)

✨ How to enjoy falling in love without the stress (so you can stay focused on your other goals)

Apply to work with Emily Freeman Coaching

This is the summer you meet your dream woman ❤️

Emily Freeman Coaching Signature

It’s my mission to help men realize their true potential in dating & relationships. I know what it’s like to desire partnership so badly but question if you’ll ever get it. It doesn’t have to be this hard. I’m so grateful I’m the one who gets to show you how fun and fulfilling love can be.

Emily Freeman

It’s my mission to help men realize their true potential in dating & relationships. I know what it’s like to desire partnership so badly but question if you’ll ever get it. It doesn’t have to be this hard. I’m so grateful I’m the one who gets to show you how fun and fulfilling love can be.

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